General Fiction Reviews
The Mother-in-Law Diaries by Carol Dawson
Washington Square Press, March 2000.Trade Paperback, 284 pages.
ISBN: 0671040855.
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On another level this book is a celebration of what it means to be female and heroically play the absurd hand that the gene pool may have dealt her. Not since the Biblical account of Ruth and Naomi has this relationship been described in a manner which reflects the dignity and courage of middle aged women. After each conjugal misadventure, the author sums up the problem and comes up with either an insight or at least a whimsical comment. Lulu describes her peregrinations as serial monogamy.
Lulu's chance collection of mothers-in-law is as varied as the young men with whom she falls in love. The heiress, full of Dallas elegance, appears to be the mother-in-law who got away and the one that young Lulu was the most eager to keep as a mentor. Lulu was learning to eat Beluga caviar in the morning and make appropriate comments about Japanese erotic art. Lulu only in due time found that this woman of consummate taste and great erudition was possessed of real art, Bonnards, Picassos, and Braques, but was also saddled with a husband whose only passion was for dove season and making sure there were enough javelinas in south Texas to insure a decent hunting season. Lulu concluded that Bo, the heiress, was deeply sad. A family secret hinted at, guessed at but never discussed, bound all family members, because to mention it would have been in poor taste.
The last mother-in-law mentioned was called the Ghost. Lulu discovers her husband's den where he goes to work and dream, with the help of a stash of marijuana, had been decorated to perfection with his mother's possessions. That is his secret safe place. When he discovers that Lulu's teen aged son has stolen his stash, this ends the marriage.
The Mother-in-Law Diaries is a book of wisdom, adventure of the conjugal kind, and insight into an aspect of life most of women will encounter. It is a great book to read--especially if you enjoy a different perspective.
--Sarah Reaves White
Writing New York: A Literary Anthology Edited by Phillip Lopate
Washington Square Press, April 2000.Trade paperback, 1032 pages.
ISBN: 0671042351.
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Therefore, Mr. Lopate has presented us with an anthology, arranged in chronological order -- not based on the birth and death dates of the author -- but on the approximate date when the selection was written. Each selection is prefaced with an introductory paragraph about the author. The reader will find personal favorites and enlightening new voices in all forms: poetry, diaries, essays and short stories. In this comprehensive book of over a thousand pages with selections from 108 authors, favorite writers from a lifetime of reading will be enjoyed, and authors that the reader has not yet enjoyed reading will be encountered. Especially enjoyable is "The Landmarker" by Louis Auchinloss in which the protagonist, a single man still invited to the best parties, focuses his emotions on an old building he does not want to see torn down. The building is a symbol of an old and familiar way of life that he sees fading away. From this social commentary, we can then turn to James Baldwin's excerpt from his essay "The Fire Next Time" in which Baldwin forces the reader to really see with the eyes of a young and confused black man. Baldwin's furious, yet powerful prose drags us through his world like a speeding subway train.
Whether the reader only savors favorite authors or uses Writing: New York as a total literary experience by reading it cover to cover, the experience will be enjoyable. Mr. Lopate has compiled a unique anthology with a very original focus.
--Sarah Reaves White
Return to the July 2000 issue of The IWJ.
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