For the young, email is a big bore, associated only with authority and school. The younger generation uses text messaging when they want to communicate with someone interesting; email is reserved for parents and teachers.
E-mail is so last millennium. Young people see it as a good way to reach an elder -- a parent, teacher or a boss -- or to receive an attached file. But increasingly, the former darling of high-tech communication is losing favor to instant and text messaging, and to the chatter generated on blogs and social networking sites such as Facebook and MySpace.
The shift is starting to creep into workplace communication, too.
"In this world of instant gratification, e-mail has become the new snail mail," says 25-year-old Rachel Quizon from Norwalk, Calif. She became addicted to instant messaging in college, where many students are logged on 24/7.
Much like home postal boxes have become receptacles for junk mail, bills and the occasional greeting card, electronic mailboxes have become cluttered with spam. That makes them a pain to weed through, and the problem is only expected to worsen as some e-mail providers allow online marketers to bypass spam filters for a fee.
Beyond that, e-mail has become most associated with school and work.
"It used to be just fun," says Danah Boyd, a doctoral candidate who studies social media at the University of California, Berkeley. "Now it's about parents and authority."
It means that many people often don't respond to e-mails unless they have to.
Boyd's own Web page carries this note: "please note that i'm months behind on e-mail and i may not respond in a timely manner." She, too, is more easily reached with the "ping" of an instant message.
That said, no one is predicting the death of e-mail. Besides its usefulness in formal correspondence, it also offers the ability to send something from "one to many," says Anne Kirah, a senior design anthropologist at Microsoft who studies people's high-tech habits. That might include an announcement for a club or invitation to a party.
Quizon e-mails frequently in her corporate communications job at a hospital, and also uses it when she needs documentation -- for instance, when dealing with vendors for her upcoming wedding. In those cases, she says e-mail "still holds more clout."
Email isn't going away, apparently, it's just become the older, more formal type of writing. So, let's get this straight. If email is now the antiquated, formal way of writing, then texting is the language of choice for generations to come. The fact that most people over the age of 30 can't decipher the average teen's text messages is clearly part of the appeal.
Too bad for teens (and fortunately for parents), there's a handy English - Text translater for free at
Transl8it.com.